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Leaving an abusive relationship

It can be very difficult to decide to leave an abusive relationship. Call your local Crisis Centre for support, the counsellors there can assist with a safety plan.

When you have decided to leave, pack a bag and leave it with a friend or neighbour. Make sure that you pack extra clothes and, if you have a child or children, pack a favourite toy. Keep an extra set of house and car keys outside of the house in case you have to leave in a hurry.

Important papers that you should take with you are:

  • Birth certificates
  • Any medication and health insurance papers
  • Cheque and/or savings books
  • Passports
  • Pay slips
  • Any court papers

Again, it is important to plan cautiously. This can be the most dangerous time for a woman in an abusive relationship Do call us on 328-0922 if you would like advice on leaving your abusive partner.