There is a recognizable pattern to the behaviour of the perpetrato of domestic violence which can be helpful to the victim so he/she can see the signs of impending violence.
A more detailed Cycle of Violence can be found here.
"I'm sorry" "It will never happen again" Flowers, gifts. Denial of incident and minimizing the hurt.
Shortest of stages lasting from 5 minutes or 5 days. Abuse ranges from pushing, shoving, kicking, punching, to the use of weapons
Woman can sense irritability. Feels she can and must resolve situation. Withdraws from partner. Partner senses her withdrawal. Tension increases. Sometimes woman may ignite situation to get it over with.